Private vs Public relationships

Kicking off (pun is intended) my new relationship section of Khaurafab, I wanted to introduce the latest celebrity couple, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. These relationship rumors started a few months ago but were confirmed when Taylor showed up at a Kansas City Chiefs game a few weeks ago. If you are anything like me and don’t understand football, I won’t explain anything football-related today—only the relationship details, what we know, and what I think about this relationship.

She has been to three games in his section and is usually always with Mama Kelce, his mother. If you didn’t know, Taylor is an Eagles fan, and Jason Kelce, Travis’s brother, plays for them. Making this football family a bit complicated but closer than ever. The brothers share a podcast called “New Heights Show,” where they discuss the topic of Taylor. He was open about some parts of the relationship but, of course, kept a lot of details private. We know that Taylor is private in her past relationships, but in this new relationship, she seems more public than ever. Many people wonder if she is really as private in her relationships or if it is the guys she’s been with.

Public or Private?

I don’t know everything about Taylor Swift, her relationships, or what’s going on in her life. However, this new relationship makes me think about Public vs Private relationships. Celebrity or not, people still experience these private and public relationships, which is an important topic when you are with someone. How does your partner feel about posting and being in public with you? Based on different scenarios, you can see where they are and whether that aligns with your morals.

Taylor and Travis are public figures, so their discussion of relationships is different. I am happy she is in an excellent, public but private, supportive relationship. We all deserve someone who shares morals and wants the same things as you. They most likely sat down and discussed how they wanted their relationship to work and how it would be public vs private. They need to do this in their professions, but I think it’s also a great question to ask your partner.

How do they feel about posting? Personally, I am a private person in terms of the relationships I care about. That doesn’t mean that posting is off the table; it’s more like it is not something I want to do ALL THE TIME, and I am not the type of person to make birthday posts and stuff like that. Or at least not significant displays of that. That’s me personally, but you may be different. Some people want to be posted all the time and to have someone to post all the time. It’s essential to be on the same page about some of these or let it be known how you maturely feel about these things.

Have you guys been seen out together?

Have you been seen out together as a couple? If not, that could be something to look out for. Being with someone who doesn’t want to be seen with you is alarming. If you guys are sneaking around, never seeing the light of day…maybe start to go out with them in a different setting. If you want more from someone, you must let them know and make sure you think of yourself. If they don’t want to be seen out in public with you, it’s something you should discuss; what are their intentions? Maybe neither of you wants anyone to know, and that’s fine. If one of you wants to be seen outside and the other doesn’t, you need to find things to do together and see if they are comfortable going or have a conversation about it.

I will discuss relationships in more detail soon, so make sure you follow the social media for Khaurafab and the newsletter.